Frequently Asked Questions

Your questions, answered.

Clarity and confidence for your coaching journey.

General

What is a Clinical Sexologist?

A Clinical Sexologist is a professional specializing in the scientific study of human sexuality and its application to individual and relational well-being. Tania helps clients understand, accept, and achieve their intimate goals through coaching, education, and strategic guidance.

How is coaching different from therapy?

Coaching is typically future-focused and goal-oriented, helping you develop specific skills and strategies to achieve desired outcomes. Therapy often delves deeper into past traumas and mental-health diagnoses. Tania's approach is coaching-based, integrating trauma-informed principles to ensure safety and effectiveness.

Is everything confidential?

Yes, absolutely. Your privacy is paramount. All sessions, discussions, and personal information are held in the strictest confidence, adhering to professional ethical guidelines.

Do you work with individuals or couples?

Both — individuals (primarily men) and couples, with tailored programs to address unique challenges and goals.

Are sessions virtual or in person?

Both. Virtual sessions are available worldwide, and in-person sessions are offered in Pleasanton, CA.

Assessment & Booking

What is the Private Performance & Intimacy Assessment?

It's your initial 90-minute to 2-hour session designed to deeply understand your challenges, identify root causes, and create a personalized roadmap. The $425 fee is credited toward any premium coaching program.

Why do I need an assessment first?

The assessment ensures you and Tania are a good fit, clarifies your specific needs, and allows her to design the most effective, personalized strategy for you.

What if I decide not to proceed after the assessment?

That's perfectly fine. You'll still leave with valuable insights and a clear roadmap. There's no obligation to continue, though the assessment fee is non-refundable.

How do I book an assessment?

Use the secure booking form on the site by selecting any 'Book Your Private Assessment' button. Tania will confirm your time and send secure payment and intake details personally.

Kink, BDSM & Alternative Lifestyles

Do you work with kink, BDSM, and alternative lifestyles?

Yes. Tania provides knowledgeable, non-judgmental support for clients exploring kink, BDSM, and consensual power exchange. Coaching is grounded in consent, clear communication, emotional safety, and self-understanding — helping you navigate desires with confidence rather than shame.

Is this approach safe and consent-focused?

Always. Every conversation centers on informed consent, negotiated boundaries, and aftercare. Tania helps clients establish the trust, communication, and safety frameworks that allow exploration to feel secure and mutually fulfilling.

Is exploring kink or BDSM normal?

Interest in kink and BDSM is a common, healthy part of human sexuality. Tania offers a discreet, affirming space to understand your desires, communicate them effectively, and integrate them into a connected, satisfying intimate life.

Will I be judged for my interests?

Never. Tania's practice is built on discretion and acceptance. Clients are met with professionalism and respect, regardless of where they are on their journey of exploration.

Programs & Pricing

What are your coaching program fees?

Premium programs are an investment in profound transformation. The Confidence Restoration program is $10,000, ongoing support is $1,550/month, and the VIP Concierge engagement ranges from $25,000 to $50,000. The initial assessment is $425, fully credited toward a program.

Do you offer payment plans?

Yes, payment plans are available for core transformation programs. Options can be discussed during your assessment.

What results can I expect?

Clients typically experience restored confidence, deeper emotional and physical intimacy, reduced anxiety, improved communication, and a more fulfilling intimate life. Results vary based on commitment and individual circumstances.

How long do programs last?

Core transformation programs are typically four months, with options for ongoing support or customized VIP engagements.

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Still have questions?

If you didn't find your answer here, or you're ready to take the first step, begin with a confidential assessment.

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